Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Mean People

I often wonder why some people are so mean to others.

Like today, I posted a thread in a message board asking for advice. Some people were nice and gave what advice they could and others were down right rude.

This one girl even had the gall to say that I was making nurses look dumb because I didn't remember something I learned in anatomy & physiology 5 years ago, when I haven't used it or cared about is since.

I have a hard time knowing what makes them think they can treat people like that. What makes them better than the rest of us? What did I do to deserve her rude comments?

I will pray to God that she get's the help she needs to deal with whatever makes her feel like it is ok to treat another human being like that and leave it for him to deal with.

Saturday, May 17, 2008

Realizations I had today

So I was at work day talking to the girls in the back room and I realized two things:

1) I really have missed my mom and my sister and I am glad they are both moving back to Burlington, so that I can see them move often. I didn't really believe that until I said it today. I cannot wait till the are back down here and I can see them whenever!!

2) I totally want to get pregnant now, not in a year. A girl at work was coerced in to telling us she is 8 weeks pregnant and I'm so happy for her, but jealous at the same time. I galls them that they also weren't trying to get pregnant, much like everyone else I know that is pregnant now. I almost wish that Jeff and I could have an oops and get pregnant, cause I don't know how I am going to last a whole year before trying. I also still have this gut feeling that were not going to get pregnant easily, that we are going to have to really work to get pregnant and struggle with IF first. Call me crazy, but I just feel like we will.

Well that's it for today, just needed to get that off my chest.

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

Something to start with

Ok so we finally did it. We went to a couples counsellor and hashed out our problems. I felt almost silly at first, because how could we have this many problems and we've only been married 6 months. Our counsellor didn't seem to think so. He said it was great that we came this early because couples have a better chance of staying married if they do couples counselling in the first two years of marriage. Bonus for us. We have homework and we need to start treating each other according to the 17 rules of marriage he gave us. Also we need to read a book called The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Mordechai Gottman, John Gottman, Nan Silver.

So tomorrow I have to start packing our apartment and first home as a married couple. I asked myself last week when we found out the move was a go it I was sad. Honestly I'm not at all, this place has been hell with us fighting and the problems here. I can't wait to get out of here. The plans for the new place are well on there way.

Can't wait for June 1, 2008 our moving day!!