Ok so we finally did it. We went to a couples counsellor and hashed out our problems. I felt almost silly at first, because how could we have this many problems and we've only been married 6 months. Our counsellor didn't seem to think so. He said it was great that we came this early because couples have a better chance of staying married if they do couples counselling in the first two years of marriage. Bonus for us. We have homework and we need to start treating each other according to the 17 rules of marriage he gave us. Also we need to read a book called The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Mordechai Gottman, John Gottman, Nan Silver.
So tomorrow I have to start packing our apartment and first home as a married couple. I asked myself last week when we found out the move was a go it I was sad. Honestly I'm not at all, this place has been hell with us fighting and the problems here. I can't wait to get out of here. The plans for the new place are well on there way.
Can't wait for June 1, 2008 our moving day!!
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